What To Do When Someone Dies

What do I do if someone dies at home?

If the person is under the care of a palliative team, they should develop a plan with you before the need arises. Follow their lead. They will let you know who to call, and in what order. The funeral director will generally be last on the list.

Otherwise, call 000 - you will need the ambulance and the police.

The funeral director cannot attend until specific processes have been completed.

  • Firstly, the ambulance officers will be able assess the person and confirm ‘life extinct’.
  • Secondly, the police then need to verify that there are no suspicious circumstances and the death appears to be due to natural causes.
  • Thirdly, the police will then make contact with the person's general practitioner to ascertain that they are confident about a cause of death and will be able to provide the ‘medical cause of death' certificate to the funeral director.

Once these three steps are completed, the police will give you permission to call a funeral director to arrange a transfer into their care. This can happen at any time of the day or night. We are here when you need us.

If the police are not able to reach the general practitioner, or the general practitioner is not certain about a cause of death, the police will arrange a transfer into their care (to their Forensic Science Department) for safe-keeping until further information is available.

Please know that you will be kept informed and supported through this process. Often, the additional information obtained over the coming hours/days is sufficient to enable permission to proceed with funeral arrangements.

What do I do if someone dies in a nursing home?

If the person dies in nursing home, the nursing staff will call and ask the general practitioner or locum to attend so that they can assess the person and confirm ‘life extinct’. They will also call family so that they may attend if they wish. Due to the busy nature of doctors, this step can sometimes take a few hours.

Once confirmation is obtained , and the family are ready, you can call a funeral director to effect a transfer into their care. Once again, this can happen at any time of the day or night. We are here when you need us.

What happens when someone dies in hospital?

If the person dies in a public or private hospital, the hospital will attend to the process of confirming ‘life extinct’ and organising the ‘medical cause of death certificates’. Each hospital has a different release process. You can ask the nursing staff, or your funeral director, about the process in their particular hospital. Most of the time, once the family is ready, the person is moved to the hospital’s mortuary while the internal processes are completed.

Generally, public hospitals will only release people into the care of a funeral director during set operating hours on weekdays.


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Diane. June 2023.

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Sarah. May 2023

Thank you so much for yesterday's lovely service to farewell Barb. I think that it went off really well and it was so nice to see her relatives there and old friends. The setting was beautiful - it could not have been better as Partridge House is directly across from where Barb spent all her school years at Woodlands Girls Grammar - now St Peter's. I am sure that Barb would heartily have approved everything we were able to do for her. Wendy, Marlene, Andrea and I met afterwards in the Holdfast Hotel for one glass of prosecco to toast happy memories of our fun times we had with Barb over many years. Again thanks to you (Fiona Talbot-Leigh - Celebrant), Peter, his mother and the other staff for a fitting farewell to a dear friend.

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